Big adventures start with tiny steps. A slow walk where your child leads the way is one of the easiest outdoor activities for toddlers.
The first wobbly walk. The first trip down the big slide. The first time they ask for more ketchup all by themselves. When we let little ones lead, even for a few minutes, they practice being brave. As Nana said in Little hands, big dreams, every day is a new chance to grow.
What it means for your child
Every age has its own tiny steps. Here’s what they can look like.
- Babies: Tiny steps are rolling, reaching and scooting toward a toy. Set one just out of reach and cheer them on.
- Toddlers: They want to walk, not ride. Let them walk part of the way, and stop to look at every rock, bug and puddle.
- Preschoolers: They can choose which way to turn, spot signs and lead you home. Let them be the tour guide.
- School-age kids: Big kids can plan a route, count the blocks or lead the family to a new park. Let them hold the map.
Try this tonight
Tonight, take the long way around the block and put your child in charge.
- Pick a safe, short loop near home and bring water. When it’s hot out, wait until after sunset.
- At each corner, ask, “Which way should we go?” and follow their choice when it’s safe.
- Back home, ask them to tell someone about the walk: “Where did you take us?”
Words you can use
- “You’re the leader today. Which way?”
- “Look how far you walked!”
- “What did you find on our adventure?”
At Nana’s Place
At Nana’s Place, we care for children from 6 weeks to 12 years old, with day, evening and overnight care at our Peoria and Northern buildings in Glendale. We know the biggest adventures start small. If you’d like to take a first step with us, come for a tour.
Questions parents ask
My toddler won’t stay in the stroller. What should I do?
Try a mix. Let them walk the first part while they have lots of energy, then ride when they get tired. Short walks with plenty of stops work best.
How can I help my shy child feel braver?
Give small choices and small chances to lead, like ordering their own snack or picking the path home. When they try something new, notice the courage, not just the result.
Little legs can be slow, so bring your patience along. Nana wrote about that in Patience is love that waits for little legs to catch up.
